Belum lama ini, beredar sebuah surat terbuka dari seorang istri yang diselingkuhi suaminya kepada si wanita pihak ketiga. Sebuah surat yang sangat baik karena ditulis bukan berdasarkan emosi kemarahan ataupun kesedihan namun menunjukkan betapa mahalnya sebuah perceraian secara waktu dan perasaan yang terbuang. Yang saya tidak mengerti, kenapa surat ini ditujukkan kepada sang wanita saja. … More Selingkuh itu Pilihan Pria dan Wanita – jangan salahkan wanitanya saja
There is an article on Facebook that has just gone viral. It was an open letter from divorced wife of a cheating husband to the woman of the affair. It was a great letter, not one that was smeared with anger or plea but quite objectively written, stating how expensive the divorce was in terms … More It Takes Two to Have an Affair – stop blaming just the woman
“You sure you want to go back to work?” That is the first question most people usually asked me when I tell them about wanting to re-join the corporate world. It seems absurd, when many are wishing they could do what I have been doing for the past three years; traveling and not working (unless … More Leaving the Dream Life for a Corporate Career – from working, to not, and now coming back
It has been a while since I have to go through tons of CVs to fill a position. As some of you might know, in the last 15 months, I have been busy building my own start-up company http://www.yellowdoor.id I cannot say that the success is surprising as we did put a lot of thought, … More Hiring in Indonesia – looking outside race, gender and religion
Bathroom is one place where revelations come to me. Might not sound so glamorous, but whatever works right? I think it is the place where I am exposed, alone and those moments are when I am most receptive I supposed. Well anyway, one afternoon, in a bathroom, in a quiet November weekend, my 2017 resolutions … More 2017 Resolution – The Streamline Year
It is December now, the final month of the year. It is the month where I usually reflect on the past months, introspecting myself and figuring out my next year focus. The last quarter has been one of my most amazing journeys. I kicked off the quarter with a Tough Mudder race that I have … More 2016: The Sensible Year – the last quarter
(I might be attacked on this writing. Now before you do that, this is my personal opinion with no intention to offend anyone. I have my own thoughts, as I believe you also do, if you don’t like it, just simply don’t agree with me). At the beginning of this year, I went on a … More The ‘Annoying Fanatic’ vs ‘Cool Christian’ – which one is a better friend?