Selingkuh itu Pilihan Pria dan Wanita – jangan salahkan wanitanya saja

Belum lama ini, beredar sebuah surat terbuka dari seorang istri yang diselingkuhi suaminya kepada si wanita pihak ketiga. Sebuah surat yang sangat baik karena ditulis bukan berdasarkan emosi kemarahan ataupun kesedihan namun menunjukkan betapa mahalnya sebuah perceraian secara waktu dan perasaan yang terbuang. Yang saya tidak mengerti, kenapa surat ini ditujukkan kepada sang wanita saja. … More Selingkuh itu Pilihan Pria dan Wanita – jangan salahkan wanitanya saja

It Takes Two to Have an Affair – stop blaming just the woman

There is an article on Facebook that has just gone viral. It was an open letter from divorced wife of a cheating husband to the woman of the affair. It was a great letter, not one that was smeared with anger or plea but quite objectively written, stating how expensive the divorce was in terms … More It Takes Two to Have an Affair – stop blaming just the woman

Leaving the Dream Life for a Corporate Career – from working, to not, and now coming back

“You sure you want to go back to work?” That is the first question most people usually asked me when I tell them about wanting to re-join the corporate world. It seems absurd, when many are wishing they could do what I have been doing for the past three years; traveling and not working (unless … More Leaving the Dream Life for a Corporate Career – from working, to not, and now coming back

Hiring in Indonesia – looking outside race, gender and religion

It has been a while since I have to go through tons of CVs to fill a position. As some of you might know, in the last 15 months, I have been busy building my own start-up company http://www.yellowdoor.id I cannot say that the success is surprising as we did put a lot of thought, … More Hiring in Indonesia – looking outside race, gender and religion

The ‘Annoying Fanatic’ vs ‘Cool Christian’ – which one is a better friend?

(I might be attacked on this writing. Now before you do that, this is my personal opinion with no intention to offend anyone. I have my own thoughts, as I believe you also do, if you don’t like it, just simply don’t agree with me). At the beginning of this year, I went on a … More The ‘Annoying Fanatic’ vs ‘Cool Christian’ – which one is a better friend?